Optimism

How do you react when you think you have lost an opportunity or had failure in life? First reaction is mostly accompanied by feeling low about your self, followed by tears……….you feel extremely sad like you have lost every thing in life and mind is encroached by suicidal thoughts which injure you or thoughts in which you blame you self for everything & follwed by inferiority complex while interacting with others. People undergo extremely painful and distressing situation at this point of time. But how many are there who fight back to all these negative & depressing powers………very few. Yes, that’s true now also we see many news of suicidal attempts in the paper followed by failure in exams, due to inability to pay bank loans or due to failure in love. It’s an unfortunate reality we are facing.
If you try to find out answers for these problems, a big list will appear in front of you but the most important reasons which I find are: Lack of optimistic or positive attitude and self belief & spirit of winning. If you have self belief and optimistic approach plus positive source of energy along with it presence of mind then you can easily face the emotional turmoil which ends up with the disastrous climax.
Don’t blame the situations or environment around you & if you do so you should have ability to change them. Try to analyze your self; why you experienced such a failure. Not others but ask your self first. If you know your self best these questions are already answered. Never behave like a looser and avoid thinking of failure. Life ahead is waiting for you to hug good opportunities laid in front of you, so face like a Warrior.
Forgetting such an incidence is difficult, but using this traumatic memory to heal the injuries it had caused is called positive attitude which can change the dreadful dream in to a beautiful morning.So guys learn as if you were going to live forever and live life as if you were going to die tomorrow.